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Hormones/Sacrament

The last couple of days have been difficult.  It is my time to be hormonal but so frustrating.  On top of my mental and emotional problems Samantha is having a hard time too.  She repeatedly has breakdowns and always looks forlorn.  We had an especially bad one a couple of weeks ago.  After talking to the Therapist she recommended that we get a Psychiatrist to evaluate her and maybe give her medication.  I don't love the idea of putting her on medication but I don't know what else to do.

As her mother I feel very inadequate.  I think that she needs a mother who loves to snuggle and loves to pay attention to every ache and pain that she reports, but that is not the mother she has.  This morning as I was pondering over this I was reminded that she was sent to me.  That there must be something I can give her that a cuddly mother could not give her.  I don't know what that is but I hope I can find it.

Yesterday I was able to go to the temple.  It was so nice to be there and to feel the Spirit of the Lord.  As I sat in the Celestial Room I basked in the peace that was there.  I was the only one in the room and I truly enjoyed the silence and peace.  I am grateful to have a temple close to me.  The temple put me in a great mood and carried over into the afternoon.





I had told the kids that if they did x, y, and z I would take them to Chick-fil-A.  Well they did it and we went.  They really enjoyed it.

I want to thank my mom for her love and support.  The last time she was here to visit me she told me that I could always call her no matter what.  That has really ment a lot to me especially on days like yesterday.  I appreciate that she drops everything to talk to me and just to listen to my frustrations and my emotional baggage.  How blessed I am to have such a mother.

I have been pondering what I should study.  Today I read an article that helped me realize what it is I really want to learn.  The article is entitled: The Last Sacrament Cup.  I realized that I want to have a stronger testimony of the Sacrament and the Atonement.  I want to feel more when I partake of the Sacrament each Sunday and I want to rely more on the Atonement and what it can do for me.

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